GOTTA LOVE SUMMER

BLACKBERRY PICKIN'

Got a call at 7am-ish from friend Erica that the Blackberry farm was still open. HMMMM...can I handle 2 kids at the patch?? Off we go!!! I put Harbour in the sling and gave Thatcher the bucket. Like other plants, she wanted nothing to do with the blackberries..unless I picked them and let her squish them in her hands. Then she was ok with them. Couldn't put Harbour down in the grass so all my pics are of Thatcher. It has been 2 years since we have been so this was fun! Thatcher can find some great ones...and most were at his pickin' level so we got a full bucket pretty quickly. Nice and cool morning. These bushes are thornless which makes it great to take the kids. After about 15 min, Harbour was asleep and I was trying to keep up with Thatcher's mad pickin' skills!! Cobbler here we come!!!

FINALLY HOME!!!

WE'RE HOME!

After a looooong day(s) of travel we are home. We sat on the tarmac in the plane because of refueling and a generator problem for 4 hours! We missed our connecting in Newark and had to catch the next plane out from JFK the next morning. Glad to be home. Thatcher, mom, and my sister Elysia met us at the airport with tears ...and a camera that caught some great pictures of Thatcher and daddy.

Things have gone well and our little ones are bonding. Harbour is a little overwhelmed by her brother's energy, but want to play with him all the same. They are too cute together.

THE REST OF THE STORY

We have better pictures with her smiling...but this is more her personality

Everyone loves Jordan!!!

Donation after being blessed by the monk

Height and weight

Lined up to be herded through on medical day

OFF TO GUANGZHOU...

DAY 1...MEDICAL DAY:

We made it to Guangzhou. Breakfast that first day was eventful with everyone meeting the new kids. What a blessing to be sharing this journey with so many. We have missed them the last week..and were finally able to meet up with families that did not travel to Beijing. We are all in a rush the first morning because we are meeting up to go over to the island for our medical appt. Harbour flew very well on her first plane ride so I'm no longer concerned that she has an ear infection ..pulling her left ear seems to be a "sleepy habit"...but I'm anxious all the same to have her checked out with her being under the weather during the last week. It's chaos...not just our agency is there so there are people everywhere. We are lucky though...no shots for our little one today. The older kids in our group are not so lucky. Harbour checks out fine and we have time to toodle around the island a little. Wish we were staying at the White Swan. It would be so much more convienient seeing as we will be spending a lot of our time on the island this week!

Days 2 and 3 ..TOURING DAYS

We decide to join the sightseeing tour to see the Buddist temple. Neat place to see...statues of Buddah...and the smell of incense burning everywhere. They have a baby blessing ceremony that we were allowed to join. Ken has it on video. Our Harbour is extra blessed now! We then traveled to a mall which we were expecting to be a street market type place...WRONG! It was a regular mall...only with 2ce the shops. Pearls, jade, and amber amongst clothing and nicknacks. We bought a pretty place setting chopstix set..but just felt too weird buying stuff in a mall. We wanted to shop the street vendors! Ken was in a haggling mood :) On the third day, all the older kids had to go back to the medical to read TB skin tests. We caught the bus over with them to do some shopping on the island. We hooked to the WiFi at Starbucks and called Thatcher as well. Missing him terribly!

Day 4...Some free time, but have to meet for Visa paperwork

We all meet in a room downstairs to go over the paperwork that will be submitted for our Visa...of course there is a problem with ours. Not only is one of our forms expired (just filled out another ..so an easy fix), but our most recent homestudy that we had to do specifically for Harbour after we were matched is wrong. Her DOB reads 8/8/2009...apparently she hasn't been born yet! Luckily, we had to renew our paperwork last year and I had that homestudy addendum with me that they were able to use. There were others that had problems as well... mentally stressful day...

Day 5...Oath...IT'S OFFICIAL

Today we went to the American Consulate. Close to 30 families (not just CHI there) were there to submit their papers and take oath. What emotion was in the room.... They asked us all to stand. We took our oath with our children in hands and arms. The moderator then announces her congratulations on our new children. SHE"S OURS....SHE'S REALLY OURS!!! Everyone is crying... these precious children are finally a part of their forever family... When we step on US soil they become US citizens... The highs and lows of waiting, paperwork, emotional and financial stress, worrying if your child is ok because you are soooo far away.... OUR WAIT HAS ENDED..... my daughter is mine...ready to get home...........

MORE NANJING

Nanjing at night

River in Nanjing

City gate in Nanjing

Fan painter. Harbour has her name on this fan

Fingerprinting Harbour

REST OF THE WEEK IN NANJING

Tuesday (June 30th) we went back to the Adoption Bureau to complete adoption documents with the notary and registrar. Time to make the orphanage donation too. Once this is done we are outta here with our legal documents to wait and tour Nanjing while we wait on her passport.

During the rest of our stay in Nanjing we toured the City Gate, and 2 museums...one was the Brocade museum that Nanjing is known for. Very neat city. One part of the city seems very old, while there is a mall around the corner that is completely Americanized. Water runs through the city so there are bridges and boats to make a nice atmosphere. Harbour's orphanage is too far away and none of our group is allowed in the orphanges due to the swine flu so we didn't go. I have spoken with yahoo group members and our CHI coordinator has also been to the orphangae to confirm that it is one of the nicer ones....as orphanages go. We have received a journal of sorts (need to get it translated) with documentation and pictures of Harbour from infancy to now which is wonderful. She seems to improve in her health everyday...another blessing as we didn't want to go to the hospital. She'll have a medical appt in Guangzhou in a couple of days to confirm she is well. If she takes turn for the worse before then, we'll take her before we board the plane. She is a wonderful baby...eats and sleeps well...and soooo happy it's funny! She smiles with her eyes as Ken likes to say. We have been skype-ing from the Burger King in the hotel to talk to Thatcher. I'm missing him soo much. He and Harbour seem to have hit it off through the computer though. She is mocking him and laughing which warms my heart. Can't wait to get home...........

NANJING

Daddy loves you already

Finally...in our arms!!!!!!

Auntie and orphange director. 1st site of our daughter

GOTCHA DAY! (June 29th)

We started our journey to Nanjing yesterday. After arriving, we went to the hotel, checked in and then straight to the bank... A few blocks walk away with A LOT of cash that we were exchanging to yuan for the orphanage fee. I was never happier to get back to the hotel and money in a safe in my life!

TODAY....WE GET HER TODAY!! We traveled to the Civil Affairs office today and patiently..yeah right...awaited them to bring her in. There is one other family with us, the Loper's, that are adopting an older child with vision issues. Lian AoYun is coming first...longest drive away (orphange is 4 hrs away) so they left earlier. There she is and is beautiful!! We talked to her for a minute, then they handed her to us. We were surprised...she came right to both Ken and I with no tears. The only time she cried during the transition is when we were waiting for Ping to come in for the Loper's and Harbour got thirsty. Unfortunately Ping's transition wasn't so smooth and our hearts hurt for her and her mom and dad. She had been in foster care and the kids are much more attached to their foster parents. AoYun was in an orphange in Lianyungang. We all get on the bus to the hotel to finish a few documents and then downtime to bond. Harbour has no trouble bonding...but is coughing and wheezing (and I know wheezing). We asked our CHI coordinator, Nancy, and she told us no dr's in the area...only the hospital. She slept with us the first night, and the next morning seemed some better. We have tried to follow the orphanage schedule, but she's not interested. She is not eating and sleeping when they have said...but we are chalking it up to being sick and maybe a little emotionally exhausted.

We have completly fallen in love with child already. Is that possible? I guess it is because we have. I can't get enough of her. Those big eyes just melt you!! I have only known her for hours and I already feel she has blessed my life tremendously....

BEIJING

Ken is the white dot at the top!

Ken halfway up...another part of the wall behind

Hutong City

Water Cube

Bird's Nest

BEIJING (JUNE 25,26,27)

After the ordeal at the airport, we all safetly arrive at the Renaissance Beijing Thursday afternoon. Some took naps...I fought to stay up until 730pm due to the time change. Ken went out for a walk and I think made it until after 9pm... Scary but I don't remember him coming back to the room I was soooo asleep. 1:30 am, I'm awake! Glad I brought 3 books. Friday morning there are a few of us families who venture down to the Olympic park. Neat place. We didn't go into the Bird's Nest, but we did decide the Water Cube was worth a visit. Being a swimmer, had to take pictures of the place Michael Phelps made history! We also did some shopping today. Had to get pearls, so off to the Pearl Market we went. I decided I wanted something different than the classic strand and wanted to incorporate jade...this will be passed to Harbour when she's older (18 or her wedding day). Hutong City was the next stop. It's an old historic city where you can travel the streets by (bicycled) rickshaw. We stopped to see a dwelling and were able to go inside. It's neat how the guide was describing the fundamentals of where each family member lived based on gender and rank.

Saturday was a long and eventful day. The entire group met up to tour TienAnMen Square, the Forbidden City, and the Great Wall. TS and FC were neat to see, but so much time was spent that I felt we were rushed at the Great Wall. It was an overcast day so the pictures didn't turn out wonderful, but what a site to see. There was some confusion as to the tier's at the wall, but I think I made it to #3 and Ken went to #5. We were told that if we return to China, the best time to see the Great Wall is in the Fall....not as hot and clearer days.

It was wonderful to meet all the new families and we are praying for safety in travel and a wonderful easy "gotcha day" for all....

LIFE UPDATE

So I'm finally updating the blog with commentary and pictures. Most of you have seen this as we emailed, but the blog is like a journal I can go back and read so here goes....

FLIGHT: DAYS 1 (AND 2)

Wednesday, June 24th we left for China. Bumpy ride to Newark so, for someone who hates to fly, it was not an optimistic start to the trip. International flight was smooth, but of course loooong. Was glad to touch down in China. Never knew how nerve-racking getting a temperature taken could be until the ominous workers came on the plane and proceeded to "shoot" everyone in the head with their temp guns. Little did I know there was more fun to come! We met up with many members of our group, for 3 of us to be pulled aside out of nowhere, given masks and excorted to the medical tent for more temp taking. Apparently the infared sensors picked up elevated body temps....and I wonder why...we're walking through a big hot airport, carrying our bags, running our mouths with our new found friends, and had been sitting in a seat for 13 hours...hmmmmmm. Longest 10 minutes of my life. I'm on the left in the yellow in the picture...taken with Ken's Iphone....

What a wonderful site to see.....

I couldn't help but capture this picture when I walked into Harbour's room yesterday. WOW...finally a suitcase!! I'm amazed at the emotion that comes when I see this picture. Everything is now laundered and nice and neat in the suitcase ready to go. 2 more days......

Life is a roller coaster!

Only with the knowledge that GOD is in control can one handled the roller coaster that is life....

2 weeks ago we were finally given travel approval with many others and tentative travel was to be June 25th....Life is up! Last Wednesday everyone received the heartbreaking email that there are some "new guidelines" for our adoptions and that everyone has been postponed to July...Life is down! Thursday, within 24hrs of that email, a new one was sent out to many of us saying that things have been worked out for the most part and BOOK YOUR TRAVEL...Life is waaaay up! So currently we are booking airfare...and dreading every email that may come from our agency because it might say to postpone. What a journey we are having. I'm praying our sweet Harbour is safe, healthy and happy. It is currently looking like she only has to wait 2 more weeks!

We have had and interesting spring with soccer as well. It was the season of rain-outs. I think half of our games were played on Fridays instead of practice. All I can say is that our son is AWESOME! I'm a mom and allowed to brag.... :) I have loved watching him play and the determination that goes along with it. He has become...cool....I guess is the word. He no longer jumps up and down after scoring a goal. He just looks for us to make sure we saw it and runs non-chalantly to the coach for a high five. He'll talk about it all day though.... so there is still excitement for the game!

Photo update from China

Thanks to the wonderful world of swine flu ( I hope I can look back and laugh later), we are still waiting on our travel approval. It's hard enough for us to understand and know God has a plan...but try explaining that to a 5 year old who seems just as anxious to get his baby sister home! It just seems so weird to be going a million miles a minute...to just getting things together as you can because you know you know have time. Patience is not my strength, but I am learning more and more each day! A silver lining on this gloomy cloud, though, is that we received an update on our little girl. She is now almost 10mos. She has grown a lot since our initial photo and just so PRECIOUS!!! Being the peds nurse I am of course I go right to putting the measurements given onto a growth chart. Imagine my surprise that weight wise she is on the "non-Asian" growth chart in the first place..then imagine my shock that she is 75% for her height. Oh, well...she is from northern China!

Life in the fast lane.....REFERRAL!

Hello to all!! Yea...the Greens are finally blogging :) Our life has hit record speed in the last month! Sunday March 29th I opened my email to find the most wonderful message.. "we have locked a file of a beautiful little girl for you to review..". After accepting our beautiful little Harbour Lian, we were told it would be 2 weeks for pre-approval and then 4 mos before our Letter of Seeking Confirmation. In one week our pre-approval was sent. The next week I received a call at work informing me that our LOC was here now instead of 4 mos. SURPRISE! You're traveling in June!!! We are now at a tentative 5 weeks from travel and there seems to be so much to do...but the key is to have fun doing it!! This blog is a way for others to follow our journey, not only to bring home Harbour, but our life in general. Thanks for "traveling" with us....